"Don’t Take Criticism from Someone You Wouldn’t Let Ride Your Horse."
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I heard that said the other day and I nodded in agreement. Now, I will clarify that there are folks out there that I appreciate greatly and they won't even come near a horse. But the statement is about trust and confidence and when it comes to riding my horse... You won't get to unless I have confidence in your ability and who you are.
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There is plenty of criticism out there and I have given my share, that I am quite sure of. Constructive criticism is valuable... and then there is the other kind that is unwarranted. When that "advice" comes my way, I do well to consider the source and heed what value that is within. Personally, I will always seek to apply biblical principle and discernment to that which is offered as well.
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Horsemanship has been a part of my entire life... and there have been scores of horses come my way... And I have "experienced many people"... I will go back to the opening statement and grant that there is element of truth within. However, I will say this in closing... surround yourself with individuals with foundation that is deep... experience that is admirable... heart for what is good... trust that they have your back... an attitude that is not flippant... goals that are not self-serving... And maybe still not a bad idea... "Would you let them ride your horse?"